Apr 24

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This is a scan of one of the many iTunes badges that were handed out at the 2008 San Jose Pride festival.

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Jun 18

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For those of you who missed it, you can now watch the wedding vows of Richard and David Speakman. We took our vows in San Jose on June 17, 2008 at 9:11 (how’s that for an omen) a.m. as the first same-gender couple in the 10th-largest city in the United States to be legally married.

We shared our day with a wonderful female couple, Ronni and Hannah Pahl,  who were married about 6 minutes after us. They were accompanied by their 12-year-old son. In the end we were the first male and female couples to be married in Silicon Valley and Santa Clara County.

When I watch this video I have two thoughts: 1) I need to lose 40 pounds, 2) relief that it’s finally over. After 6 years together, I’m really happy that I can finally refer to Rich as my husband without it just being wishful thinking. And as for the middle-age spread I have going on, I just chalk it up to the fact that for most people, a happy and long relationship + two good cooks under one roof = pleasing plumpness.

Heck, I’d rather be fat and happy than skinny and single any day.

Credit for this video goes to KPIX-TV, the local CBS affiliate.
Unfortunately, the size of the video had to be cropped to fit on my web server, so I had to edit out Ronni and Hannah’s vows.

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Jun 05

Reading today’s San Jose Mercury-News, something tells me I’ll be buying flowers for Rich soon.

David and Rich Speakman of Mountain View will be the first in line at 8:30 a.m. Supervisor Ken Yeager, himself a gay man who was just this week deputized to conduct marriages, will officiate.

“It’s not really a political statement at all, we just want it over with,” said David Speakman, 40. However, he is learning that wedding ceremonies often come with trappings. “My partner is turning into kind of a mini-groomzilla. He wants to have people over.”

Yeah… I’m gonna have to buy flowers, alright. Read the full story here.

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May 15

SUPREME COURT LEGALIZES SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

Years of struggling for equal rights paid off today when the California Supreme Court struck down separate-but-equal domestic partnerships and opened the door for millions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender couples to be legally married.

The fight to marry came to a head for same-sex couples in March when the state Supreme Court heard impassioned oral arguments in favor of granting equal marriage rights for all Californians. The Supreme Court ruled 4-3 today that denying LGBT couples the right to marry violates California’s Constitution.
“For the first time in California history, same-sex couples have been recognized for what they are—loving, caring relationships every bit as valid as heterosexual marriages,” said Leslie Bulbuk, president of the Bay Area Municipal Elections Committee. “I am ecstatic that the highest court in our state has taken this wonderfully historic step.”

To mark this historic occasion, BAYMEC and San Jose’s Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center are holding a rally with local elected officials. The demonstration to celebrate the court’s ruling will be at 6 p.m. today at the plaza in front of the County Government Center at 70 W. Hedding St. in San Jose. All residents are invited to join in the celebration.

Even with the court’s ruling, LGBT couples will have to continue fighting for their rights this November. Several discriminatory constitutional amendments calling for marriage in California to be defined as between one man and one woman are expected to qualify for the November ballot. BAYMEC plans to fight these amendments at all costs.

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ABOUT BAYMEC
Board of Directors
Officers: Leslie Bulbuk, president; Robert Greeley, treasurer
Members: Kristin Long, Evan Low, John Myers, Thanh Ngo, Richard Poppen, Wiggsy Sivertsen
The Bay Area Municipal Elections Committee has been advocating for the civil rights of LGBT individuals in the counties of San Mateo, Santa Clara, Santa Cruz and Monterey since 1984. As a political action committee, BAYMEC’s Board of Directors makes endorsements, raises funds and provides volunteers to gay and gay-friendly candidates, and the board makes sure elected officials follow through on their promises to address the issues of our community.

P.O. Box 6296, San Jose, CA 95150-9696 * (408) 486-9049 * www.baymec.net * FPPC #841499

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Jan 28

kntv business card - 1997This was the business card I had when I worked at KNTV in San Jose. Back then it was an ABC station. Now it is an NBC owned-and-operated station.

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Nov 25

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ON Mag 07-11ON Magazine | November 2007 (free PDF version)

Features:

  • Winter Travel Issue
  • News

As usual, I leaf through this magazine when Rich brings it home from the Billy DeFrank Center or some other LGBT function he volunteers for. This magazine used to be called OutNow a LGBT monthly for and about San Jose and Silicon Valley. But under new owners, it was renamed ON Magazine (I really hate post-gay names) and focuses on the entire Bay Area and northern California.

Sadly, the more regional this publication gets, the less focused and interesting it becomes. This month’s issue is no different.

Winter travel: It focuses on cold places and Las Vegas. Since I moved to California to escape the snow and do not gamble, I skipped this section. One article was on the California desert – but it was more of a list – which Wikipedia does better.

That left about 4-6 pages of news scattered among the ads. Here, the magazine is improving under editor Troy May, a man I used to work with when we were both board members of the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association.

There also is a good article by Heather Cassell on the merger of Coors and Miller brewing – which could end the decades-long LGBT boycott of Coors (were you aware if this boycott?).

Another decent article was a collection of new state laws that will affect LGBT people in California as of January1, 2008.

Other news included an article on three new restaurants opening in San Francisco’s Castro district. That fell into the who-gives–shit category. It was clearly written for the purpose of getting more advertising from SF restaurants – as if anyone from San Jose not of the bar-hopping sort is willing to drive 1.5 hours up to San Francisco, spend another hour trying to park and then dodging homeless people, hoping the smell of human waste doesn’t kill your appetite before dinner begins – then afterward paying San Francisco’s outrageous sales tax for the privilege. No thank you.

Aside from a by-the-numbers profile of a local gay business man (another non-subtle try for ad dollars?), the rest of the magazine was about stuff you could read elsewhere online by better writers.

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Oct 30

Below at the bottom of this article is a graphical map of San Jose’s Halloween Eve earthquake. The epicenter of the quake is the red star in the center.

It happened a little after 8 p.m. while I was in class in law school (right arrow). The classroom was in a basement of a mid-rise building in downtown San Jose. As first there was a low rumbling… for about 5 seconds. It felt like a freight train going by.

Then BAM.. it was like someone took the floor and started shaking it up and down real hard and very fast. If you’ve ever driven your car into a ditch before – that’s how it felt. That lasted for about 5 or 6 more seconds.

Then it started to subside in a rolling fashion. That felt like the room was on a boat in heavy seas. It kinda made you queasy. During this part, I got up and headed for the door. That rolling lasted for a few more seconds and finally tapered off.

As you read this, a “few seconds” may not seem like much, but when adrenaline kicks in 10-15 seconds can feel like a LOOOOOOOOOOOONG time.

Meanwhile…

Where my home is in Mountain View (Left Arrow), the shaking was much less severe. My husband and our pets rode out the rumbles like seasoned veterans.

Me, being an Indiana boy, I think I handled the situation – which was the strongest earthquake I lived through – fine. But it did make enough of an impression on me that I decided to write about it here. (And make a map to boot.)

After a 10-minute break, my class resumed and Judge Ware, continued his lecture as if nothing happened. But with the student turmoil, he ended class early since many of the students were freaking out about being in a trapped basement if a bigger quake hit.

October 30 Earthquake
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Aug 06

More. damn. sun.

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Don’t be fooled by the clouds shown on the Monday forecast below. There weren’t any this morning – just a little marine layer that burned off before 9 a.m. More blue skies. Ack.

Weather for San Jose, CA
62°F
Cloudy
Wind: W at 4 mph
Humidity: 65%
Mon
Mostly Sunny
71°F | 53°F
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72°F | 53°F
Wed
Sunny
76°F | 55°F
Thu
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Jul 04

According to a recent report by the United States Census Bureau, the pecking order of the most populous U.S. cities has changed. The report, issued June 30, shows in 2004 San Jose, with an estimated population of 904,522 is the nation’s 10th-largest city, overtaking Detroit with its smaller population of 900,198.

The U.S. Census traditionally releases population figures for the year previous to the date the figures are made public.

‘Capital of Silicon Valley’ still an unknown among Americans

According to a report in the San Jose Mercury News, Mayor Ron Gonzales is saying the new ranking may help people across the U.S. be more interested in San Jose and think of it as a world-class city. “It puts us in a very distinguished class,” he told the paper.

But for many, northern California’s largest city, the self-proclaimed “Capital of Silicon Valley” remains an enigma. In a country not noted for its geographical knowledge prowess, many Americans have no idea where San Jose actually is. Culturally, the city may be best known as the title location of a Dionne Warwick hit song with the ironic title, Do You Know the Way to San Jose?

Many locals claim the city suffers from a self esteem problem stretching back to 1852 when San Jose lost the honor of being the California state capital to Sacramento. Additionally, for most of its existence, San Jose has been overshadowed by its smaller and more glamorous neighbor to the north, San Francisco.

“San Francisco has been in the limelight since 1849, and it was the capital of everything west of the Mississippi – it was a huge presence in the psyche of the world, and we can never replace that,” David Vossbrink, San Jose city spokesman told the San Francisco Chronicle.

It doesn’t stop with San Francisco, San Jose is routinely outshined by other Bay Area cities such as Oakland, California, which is one-third its size. Additionally, the city’s own Silicon Valley suburbs, including Palo Alto and Cupertino, regularly steal the national spotlight from San Jose.

As far as the workkforce is concerned, San Jose continues to reel from the dot-com meltdown of the early 2000’s. With an unemployment rate of 5.5 percent, it has a higher jobless rate than the national average of 5.1 percent. For a couple of years after the 2000 tech crash, San Jose lost population as thousands of unemployed fled to look for work elsewhere.

But the city is on the mend and does have some legitimate bragging rights aside from sheer size. Despite the unemployment, San Jose is America’s wealthiest big city with an average household annual income of $70,000. It consistently ranks as “The Safest Big City in America,” according to FBI crime statistics as having the lowest violent crime rate for any U.S. city with a population over 500,000. The local public university, San Jose State is the largest within the California State University system.

Economically, an increasing number of large companies also are opting to call San Jose home, including Cisco Systems, Knight Ridder, eBay and Adobe Systems.

Slowdown in ‘Motown’ a long time coming

For many media outlets covering San Jose’s ascendence into the ranks of the United States’ Top 10 cities, the real story has been the decline of Detroit and its symbol as a Midwestern industrial giant.

For decades, Detroit, the self-styled “Motor City,” rested its fortunes with the American automobile industry. Each of the Big Three automobile manufacturers, General Motors, Ford, and Chrysler, maintained headquarters there.

But with the shift of the U.S. economy away from heavy industry to services and technology, cities like Detroit suffered, while cities like San Jose prospered.

Detroit’s decline in population is not a new phenomenon. In the 1950s, the city had a population of about 1.8 million, ranking as the fourth-largest U.S. city. But its fortunes started changing in the 1970s with the OPEC oil embargo and the rise of Japan as an automobile-producing powerhouse. As the city’s fortunes waned, many residents fled Detroit for the suburbs or opted to leave Michigan altogether.

“It’s part of a pattern for the heavily industrialized cities, but I think Detroit is a specific case. There’s been an ongoing dynamic here of people, middle-class people in Detroit, fleeing the city looking for better schools, better lifestyles, better services. So it has been a particularly hard fall,” Dana Johnson, chief economist at Comerica Bank in Detroit said in an interview with the New York Times.

Detroit has also been taking its knocks in recent statistics. Unlike San Jose’s reputation for being a safe place to live, Detroit tops the list of most violent U.S. big cities. In the past year, Time magazine named Detroit Mayor Kwame M. Kilpatrick among the worst mayors in the U.S.

Along with the exodus of people and 7.8 percent unemployment rate, Detroit harbors a sight unseen in San Jose, blocks of vacant housing. For years these vacant buildings have been the targets of arsonists on the so-called Devil’s Night, where blocks of homes have been set ablaze in Detroit.

Additionally, unlike San Jose, which is in the process of moving 1,800 employees into a new $388 million city hall and faces shortage of police officers, shrinking Detroit faces a $300 million budget deficit and the prospect of laying off 700 police and fire-fighting personnel in the next few months.

For: Wikinews

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